I'm so happy! I have a life again! OT-512 is over! I'm going to post the paper I wrote for it here.
Enjoy!
David and Bathsheba: A Counselor’s Perspective
By Ted Mathis
Denver Seminary
January 31, 2006
OT 512: Understanding the Kingdom of Israel and Her Prophets
Dr. M. Daniel Carroll R
Introduction
This paper will examine the biblical story of David and Bathsheba, focusing in particular on the life of David. The applicable lessons from this story will be examined for possible use in counseling men at various stages of life. Initially, the context of this narrative will be examined, followed by a review of some important observations from the story, and concluding with implications for counselors with male clients.
Backdrop for the Story
The first mention of David is found in 1 Samuel 16 where Samuel anoints David to replace Saul as king over Israel. David is pictured as a young shepherd boy, who apparently “did not particularly look like a king, but his heart followed the Lord.”
[1] From this humble beginning, David begins a journey that commences with him becoming an armor bearer to Saul (1 Sam 16:19-23), using his musical skill of playing his harp for Saul (16:23) with “an ongoing presence of the Lord’s Spirit, from the day of his anointing onward.”
[2] Next the Bible tells us “one of the greatest of all children’s stories,” the conquest of Goliath in 1 Samuel 17.
[3] By killing Goliath on the battlefield, David becomes a hero and demonstrates his faith in God to deliver his people from their enemies. 1 Samuel 18 tells how David becomes a lifelong friend to Jonathan, the son of King Saul. Chapters 18-20 contain “the details of Saul’s six attempts at murdering David.”
[4] Meanwhile Jonathan becomes instrumental in protecting David from being murdered (19:1-7, 20:1-42). The rest of 1 Samuel continues with David running for his life from Saul, hiding in the desert and in caves (22:1, 24:1-13), fighting the Philistines (23:1-5), and finally even hiding out in the land of the Philistines (27:1). David’s respect for authority is revealed as twice he turns from the opportunity to kill Saul (24:1-22, 26:1-25), refusing to touch the “LORD’S anointed” (24:6, 24:10, 26:9, 26:11, 26:16, 26:23). Much of David’s early years can be characterized by the picture of David running, “running toward Goliath, running from Saul, pursuing God, meeting Jonathan, rounding up sheep, whatever, but running.”
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The second book of Samuel opens with David pausing to lament the deaths of Saul and Jonathan. David establishes his rule over Judah in Hebron (2 Sam 2:1-4) for “seven years and six months” (2:11) and finally becomes king over all Israel (5:1). He captures Jerusalem, makes it his new capital city, establishes his harem (5:13), brings the ark to Jerusalem (6:1-23), and defeats his remaining enemies (8:1-2, 10:17-19). Finally it seems that David can stop running. His goals are achieved, and his place in life has never been better.
Commentary on the Story
Chapter eleven opens with an observation in the first verse that “at the time when kings go off to war . . . David remained in Jerusalem.” “The phrase which speaks of kings going forth (to war) turns a spotlight on the king who stays at home.”
[6] The story continues in verse two: “One evening David got up from his bed and walked around on the roof of the palace.” David has kicked back from the thrills of his earlier life and is taking it easy. He doesn’t have to be out fighting anymore. He’s got generals to do that for him. It’s good to be the king.
But suddenly the verse continues with, “From the roof he saw a woman bathing.” While George Nicol speculates that “Bathsheba’s action of bathing in such close proximity to the royal palace was deliberately provocative,”
[7] a better interpretation of the text is that a seed of lust has taken grip on David. He now “uses the power of his office to force a sexual encounter with Bathsheba.”
[8]Commenting on this passage, Eugene Peterson makes much of “the subtle repetition of a seemingly amoral word: send.”
[9] This simple verb announces the “impersonal exercise of power.”
[10] By following this repeated word, those exercising this type of power can be observed with more insight. The first use occurs in chapter eleven, verse one: “David sent Joab.” A king gives an order which is obeyed automatically. Next in verse three, “David sent someone to find out about her.” His lust activated, verse four tells us that “David sent messengers to get her.” Bathsheba, choosing in verse five to defer to the king to find a solution, “sent word to David, saying, ‘I am pregnant.’” David now conspires to commit the sin of murder as part of a scheme to cover up his sin of adultery. In verse six he once again uses the power of his throne, and the word send appears three more times: “So David sent this word to Joab: ‘Send me Uriah the Hittite.’ And Joab sent him to David.” Joab responds with the obedience of one under authority. In verse 18, “Joab sent David a full account of the battle,” letting him know that Bathsheba’s husband Uriah had been killed. David now sends for Bathsheba to marry her (11:27).
Finally in 12:1, “the LORD sent Nathan to David.” God has the final word, intervening with his ultimate authority and power. “Nathan rebukes David for stealing the poor man’s lamb and announces that his first child by Bathsheba will die.”
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The Consequences of the Story
David’s sin with Bathsheba marks the turning point in his life. No longer will everything go his way. When Joab sends for David in 12:27 to get back into action in battle, it appears that things might return to normal. Instead, his life is now devastated when his son Amnon rapes his half-sister Tamar (13:1-22), and David’s son Absalom murders Amnon because of it (12:22-31). Absalom takes the kingdom from his father, and David is running for his life again (15:14). Even though he regains his palace after the death of Absalom, his troubles continue until his death is recorded in 1 Kings 2:10.
Observations from the Story
It is interesting to note that after Nathan forgives David’s sin (2 Sam 12:13), only two more mentions are made of David’s catastrophic failure. The first is in 1 Kings 15:5: “For David had done what was right in the eyes of the LORD and had not failed to keep any of the LORD’S commands all the days of his life—except in the case of Uriah the Hittite.” The other is recorded as part of the messianic lineage in Matthew 1:6: “David was the father of Solomon, whose mother had been Uriah’s wife.”
Even though David suffers huge consequences during the rest of his earthly life after his sin with Bathsheba, God seems to have no trouble forgiving David for his sin and remembering him in terms of their covenant relationship. David and “forever” are mentioned 15 times (2 Sam 7:26, 22:51, 1 Ki 1:31, 2:33, 9:5, 2 Ki 9:19, 21:7, 1 Chr 15:2, 17:24, 23:25, 2 Chr 13:5, 21:7, 33:7, Psa 18:50, and Ezek 37:25).
Another amazing commentary on this adulterer and murderer is 1 Kings 15:3: “He [Abijah] committed all the sins his father had done before him; his heart was not fully devoted to the LORD his God, as the heart of David his forefather had been.” Clearly God’s standard for a fully devoted heart does not require one to never violate the law. In Acts 13:22, the New Testament remembers David as a “man after [God’s] own heart.” There are no qualifiers on that judgment. God is pleased to remember David based on his covenant with him and based on the quality of his devotion.
Conclusion
The story of David is the story of a man of passion—passion for God, battle, worship, love, and even sin. But it is also a story of God’s amazing and even more passionate forgiveness. For men seeking counseling, it is a warning for them to be on guard for the power of sexual temptation, especially when things are going well. Mighty kingdoms have been brought down from a root of sexual sin. Men of passion and heart especially need to be aware of the dark side of their passion. The consequences of sin are far reaching. Not only is the immediate family affected, but generations to come may also be affected. For those in leadership positions, this story highlights how greatly the power of a leader can negatively influence the lives of those under their authority.
For those who have already fallen, this narrative provides a powerful example of God’s response to those who earnestly repent. While consequences may follow in this life, their sin will be all but forgotten. For men who believe they can cover up their mistakes, it reveals the reality that sin will eventually be exposed, confronted, and dealt with. David’s life serves as a grim reminder that sin is never private. For those in the midst of trials, it provides encouragement that God is on their side, defining their relationship on the basis of covenant, and not on the basis of past sins that have already been forgiven. God will have the final word on our lives.
Bibliography
Arnold, Bill T. and Bryan E. Beyer. Encountering the Old Testament: A Christian Survey. Grand Rapids: Baker, 1999.
Garsiel, Moshe. “The story of David and Bathsheba: A different approach.” Biblical Quarterly Vol. 55, Issue 2 (April 1993): 244-260.
Howard, David M. An Introduction to the Old Testament Historical Books. Chicago: Moody Press, 1993.
Lowery, Richard H. “David, Bathsheba, Nathan, and War.” Tikkun 08879982, Vol. 18, Issue 2 (March/April 2003): 23-25.
Nicol, George G. “The Alleged Rape of Bathsheba: Some Observations on Ambiguity in Biblical Narrative.” Journal for the Study of the Old Testament 73 (1997): 43-54.
Perry, M. and M. Sternberg. The King Through Ironic Eyes: The Narrator’s Devices in the Biblical Story of David and Bathsheba, and Two Excurses on the Theory of the Narrative Text. Hasifrut 1, 1968.
Peterson, Eugene H. Leap Over a Wall: Earthly Spirituality for Everyday Christians. New York: HarperCollins, 1998.
Reference Citings
[1] Bill T. Arnold and Bryan E. Beyer, Encountering the Old Testament: A Christian Survey (Grand Rapids: Baker, 1999), 201.
[2] David M. Howard, An Introduction to the Old Testament Historical Books (Chicago: Moody Press, 1993), 155-156.
[3] Eugene H. Peterson, Leap Over a Wall: Earthly Spirituality for Everyday Christians (New York: HarperCollins, 1998), 36.
[4] Ibid., 52.
[5] Ibid., 11.
[6] M. Perry and M. Sternberg, The King Through Ironic Eyes: The Narrator’s Devices in the Biblical Story of David and Bathsheba, and Two Excurses on the Theory of the Narrative Text (Hasifrut 1, 1968), 195.
[7] George G. Nichol, “The Alleged Rape of Bathsheba: Some Observations on Ambiguity in Biblical Narrative,” Journal for the Study of the Old Testament 73 (1997), 44.
[8] Richard H. Lowery, “David, Bathsheba, Nathan, and War,” Tikkun 08879982, Vol. 18, Issue 2 (March/April 2003), 24
[9] Peterson, Leap Over a Wall, 183.
[10] Ibid.
[11] Moshe Garsiel, “The Story of David and Bathsheba: A Different Approach,” Biblical Quarterly Vol. 55, Issue 2 (April 1993), 249.